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    Marlene
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    I feel for you deeply. It is not easy. Just remember you have to take care of yourself and have time for you, let alone everyone else. I currently have several syblings and its just me taking care of my father. I have disowned them and put them on the “shit list”. As tough as this may be, just know that when that time comes, you will have no guilt and be able to sleep at night because you did what you could. If your father wants to come live close to you, find him a place and get a nursing aide and meals on wheels to check up on him. I wish you the best. God Bless you and your family.

    #3996
    Marlene
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    I would say yes it is perfectly fine to charge them rent. Everything cost money, not to count everything you are doing for her. Don’t feel guilty either to take the money, you deserve that and more with the responsibility you have on your hands. As well, may I add, if there are any other syblings, don’t let them tell you what to do or not to do. She is under your roof and care, not theirs. Lots of luck !!!

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