Navigation: POP Community Forums › Aging Parents › Let's start talking › Reply To: Let's start talking May 26, 2016 at 4:30 pm #4160 PennyParticipant I am disabled at 56, not your problem. there are wrenches to open any thing. try the AARP store, If you hire a cleaning lady once a week, she could open hard to open items. Make your environment safe for you. Please talk to your children.